i am just as horrible as he is.

just because i learned that badgering someone until they have sex with you is ok doesnt mean it is. no more. tray deserves better than that. i deserve better than that.

for someone who's experienced that exact situation, i have a really bad understand of no means no.
im going to fix it though, i really am. from now on, i wont ask for sex as the rule. will there be exceptions? of course. but day to day, he gets to ask.

and when he says no, it means no. no exceptions.